Why humiliation feels so liberating?
Jungian psychology and the liberty of moving into your submissive pay pig function
You took too lengthy! — He screamed
I stood up there with a confused face.
He repeated: you took too lengthy! As if he was ready for me to apologize, as if I’m imagined to really feel some type of embarrassment.
I introduced espresso to the Chinese language investor visiting our firm from abroad, simply to finish up standing in entrance of him whereas he screams this type of crap.
I used to be so near give up, proper there, pretending not eager to make him go to his knees and make him kiss my heels, in all probability teasing him with the sight of my underwear, the one he would by no means be capable to contact.
My boss glanced at me, I could not care much less, I had an excessive amount of of this circus. I have to go to the lavatory and verify my messages, my telephone had been shimming the entire morning and I knew who it was.
“I simply love spoiled brats who’ve a insatiable starvation for cash”
The message learn.
Good boy, I replied, you’re studying the foundations, it’s cute how your life has some sense of function now, however you’re late for my Friday tribute.
After I despatched that textual content I acquired a 100 usd transaction with the notice: punishment for being a ineffective d*ck
I used to be attractive, I spent most of my lunchtime within the toilet going again and ahead with my slave. Generally, I want I did not want to return to actual life in any respect.
There’s a freedom in sharing this secret traits of you with another person who reciprocates with the necessity of being drained out of cash and humiliated.
However why?
Why do I cum after I make my slave ship screenshots of him humiliating himself, making my slaves ship cash till their fingers really feel numb. Why do they love to inform me their darkest humiliations whereas they contact themselves? Why do they beg me to make audios for them hypnotizing them into ATMS such because the one right here. (In case you are curious in regards to the ATM fetish, you’ll be able to learn extra about it right here).
We’re there each being weak, open. My subs love to inform me about all these issues that turns them on, like that point when a prostitute stole their cash and he or she flip them off, or how a lot they got here after sending transfers of fifty usd compulsively to a Fin Domme, that ended up being a sum of 2000 usd {dollars} in a single evening. My pay pigs and I expertise a way of freedom after we step into the roles society would not need us to embody, as a result of there’s a disgrace in embodying them.
The Jungian psychology: an exploration of repression and disgrace
So to start with I need to say that I’m a Fin Domme who will not be professionally certified in any discipline of psychology, all these concepts are my very own and It is essential to notice that whereas these connections could be explored theoretically, particular person experiences and interpretations could differ extensively, and never everybody with a fetish essentially has a deep psychological connection to Jungian ideas.
So, having that in thoughts, let’s proceed.
Round 1912, a Swiss psychiatrist named Carl Jung began giving a collection of lectures at Fordham College, New York which have been revealed later within the 12 months as Psychology of the Unconscious. Amongst his teachings, the one which I discover essentially the most fascinating is the thought generally known as “Jungian archetypes”
Jungian Archetypes are (in my phrases) “a sample of thought current within the unconscious of all human beings” that the human psyche embodies. The optimistic archetypes characterize points of the psyche which can be related to progress, wholeness, and individuation.
Optimistic archetypes are current in our “public” life and social interactions so as to hold social conventions which can be useful to us. Generally, unresolved psychological conflicts, traumas, or societal conditioning can result in the rise of a part of ourselves we’re not so proud and we repress them within the shadows of our psyche.
The place can we retailer the “repressed” elements and what it has to do with BDSM?
There are 12 optimistic archetypes. A optimistic archetype is a sample of thought that represents constructive and useful qualities throughout the human psyche. For every optimistic archetype, there’s a shadow archetype (the repressed, hidden, denied, or suppressed points of the self).
Within the dynamics of BDSM, people usually have interaction in role-playing situations the place they undertake particular roles, equivalent to dominant or submissive, extra particularly, submissives can exhibit traits of the masochistic/sufferer Jungian archetype (examine masochistic traits right here).
There’s some sense of enjoyment that exist in recreating previous experiences of childhood after we embodied an id. I’ve seen that a few of my submissives get pleasure from to be transported to previous experiences the place they have been bullied, insulted, and humiliated being {that a} sturdy expertise a catalyst to a robust bodily emotion, now related to a sexual expertise.
Why it feels so good to being humiliated? Advantages of exploring your submissive function
In my unprofessional opinion, the thrill of being a pay pig comes from the sensation of freedom. The liberty of letting out one thing you’ve got been hiding so lengthy. Whereas experiencing BDSM in a submissive function it could possibly be argued that you simply would possibly be capable to:
Discover your deeper self on a secure area
Jung proposed the existence of the anima (the female facet throughout the male psyche) and animus (the masculine facet throughout the feminine psyche). BDSM dynamics could present an area for people to discover and specific these gendered points in a consensual and managed method. For instance, a submissive man partaking along with his anima.
Know your self higher:
BDSM practices held in a secure area assist to create consciousness over traits of persona after which being practiced consensually on a secure area creates a wholesome approach of exercising some traits that is perhaps wanted to reside a life as a nicely balanced particular person.
Discover Individuation/integration:
Understanding your darkest fantasies and having the ability to deliver them into the aware is a course of known as individuation, this lets you create a extra balanced and complete self.
Integrating shadow points of the psyche is a necessary facet of the individuation course of because it entails bringing unconscious patterns into aware consciousness and dealing in the direction of higher self-understanding, acceptance, and integration. By means of this course of, people can domesticate psychological wholeness, authenticity, and resilience.
Self discovery: understanding your self
By acknowledging and understanding your archetypal patterns, you could achieve perception into your motivations, behaviors, and unconscious needs, finally main to non-public progress and improvement.
Transformation and Catharsis: orgasms when reaching the sub-space
Jungian psychology acknowledges the significance of psychological transformation and catharsis within the individuation course of. BDSM actions, significantly these involving ache or submission, could also be skilled as a type of catharsis, permitting people to discover intense feelings, launch pent-up power, and probably obtain a way of psychological transformation.
*vital notice: Moreover, trendy psychology usually approaches the understanding of fetishes from varied views, together with behavioral, cognitive, and psychoanalytic frameworks, every providing its personal insights into the phenomenon, so the Jungian method will not be the one method.
That is my take, be at liberty to jot down me again and remark how your perspective or expertise has been.